I find that parents whose children have grown forget how all-consuming and rage-inducing the early years can be, especially when you’re sleep-deprived. Now I’ve gotta cook breakfast. I’m proud of the conversations I fought for at 11:00 p.m. with the hazy eyes of cardiologists, nurse practitioners, nurses, and pharmacists staring back at me. ( Log Out /  I have zero experience with kids, except for babysitting but that’s a speck of dirt compared to your motherhood mountain. Sometimes I just want to be myself. Mom life can be just crazy sometimes. 24/7. You do get your body back. My mom had to get up at three in the morning and put me in that car seat to drive me around the neighborhood until I fell back asleep. I know I’m breaking down emotionally. I am depressed AF. My daughters are 13 and 9. I can only imagine how difficult that must be, knowing how hard it is just dealing with the murky waters of sleep deprivation, let alone the tumultuous hurricane that comes with raging hormones. Kudos to you for nursing!!! and she pulls me out of bed. But we’ll choose to do it again and again. I love my kids with all my heart. Maybe you yelled. Sometimes I am tired of being a mom too, but much less than I did this time last year. I love my boys as a Mother should but I too feel defeated. I’m so over being a mom when I look at him I see nothing but innocence but when I looked at how fucked up my new life is it reminds me that I got married at 20 and pregnant 3 months later and that’s it. Spring is a time of renewal, rebirth, and feeling energized. And I'm so tired I can hardly stand it. I thought I would miss nursing, but I don’t. I then decided to take a well-deserved night out (not all night, but 3am certainly feels like all night when you haven’t even managed to be away longer than 4 h after bedtime). My goal is to help moms find balance in their day-to-day by offering encouragement, motivation, inspiration, and a few laughs. Same to use kids but add in VERY HARSH "discipline". These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. Ugh. Children cry because they have a need that is not being met: comfort, safety, pain, fear, hunger. Ask for help…but do not moan. Those sweet angels who call me mommy…they need me. Relax your tits. You see, when mothers say “I’m tired” to our spouses, our friends, strangers, neighbors, doctors, even our own mothers, we are saying so much more than that. I just read an article in parents magazine how important it is to keep your own identity. I spent days crying that i couldnt use my swollen breasts to feed her. Because I’m a wuss, that’s why. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Today while nursing her I just burst into tears. Thank you for sharing this so others know they’re not alone. Knowing that all of this is my fault. I too suffer from PND/PPD and whilst I know that it’s a chemical condition, I do believe that more truthfulness and honesty goes a long way in making us more aware that everyone really does feel doubtful, resentful and afraid sometimes (albeit some more than others). I have 4 kids as well, but I’ve learned those days that I feel the most overwhelmed if I remember that God chose me to take care of those little angels I can make it through. Stay strong fellow mamas. I love your blog, lady! There are those days when I reflect, with a bit of remorse, on the time when I was a respected teacher and prominent leader in the community, in charge of my own destiny. As the person who…. I started hearing it the day Theo was born. Because of this my mom was always on the verge of a nervous breakdown and actually … I could have write the same exact thing! If they’re tired, they’re considered “bad” mothers. Sometimes we are afraid to share our feelings because we fear the world will judge us. This is so true, it is overwhelming to be a mom at times and it does get very tiring! I just wanted to commend you on your honesty and your authenticity. My big guy is 7 and idk that it gets any better. I can’t speak from personal experience on ppd, other than having supported my wife while she dealt with a severe bout after our second daughter’s birth. In essential it is moaning and groaning which you are doing. single. I’m sharing the tired struggles of being a stay at home mom, 15 specific ways to battle mommy burnout and my best, simplified discipline advice. You do not need to apologize for feeling this way. And He knows what He’s doing. So I’m not alone…….phew. I want to go back to my old life, the life where I slept in on weekends, watched TV whenever I wanted to, and sometimes spent all day having sex with my husband. When the girls are arguing about who said what, I just served them the bacon I burned, being interrupted by a poopy diaper, and we’re late getting out the door to go to school, only to have their baby sister poop her pants yet again. I know you posted this a long time ago but THANK YOU . I’d always, always been been able to think ahead to a time when I would be able to catch up on my sleep, maybe even take some kind of sleeping aid to ensure maximum restfulness. Ok before you go off on me about being a bad parent read first. (This post contains affiliate links. Did I say the right things when you were sad…or angry…or a little disappointed? Top Call of the Day Episode: I'm Tired Of Being A Mom To My Mom. I cried today because I can’t do it anymore and then cried that I was at that place. I’ve been crying for the last 15 minutes. I have my little sister, Sam, who just turned 18. I grew up in HUGE family and was the oldest of 7 kids. And I’m jealous that they don’t get it, jealous that they don’t have to watch what they eat or drink or smoke because they’re afraid of contaminating their breast milk, jealous that they can go to bed and not have a whimpering toddler wake them up five times a night, jealous that when they go home at the end of the day, their work is done, while mine lasts forever and ever and ever. “I’m tired” means the weight of being the sole caretaker to small children day in and day out can be completely soul-crushing. That’s a great reminder. When my daughter went down for her nap we decided to nap too. Mothers are tired and never allowed to be tired. My parents had to wait a while to see me, which I imagine was pretty hard. I love him, and I love being his mom, but sometimes I’m so tired of being a mom, anyone’s mom. If it feels overwhelmingly hard or bad, it really will help to talk it out with someone — about the things you wrote here. Many thanks for the thoughtful posts, and kudos to you for making the time to do it while being a full-time parent. I’m finding it increasingly difficult to want to do anything related to her anymore. Our love for our children keeps us going. I mean, yeah, I knew it would be hard, but hard in a being-super-brave-through-tough-times-like-Florence-Nightingale sort of way, not hard in a grinding, miserable, I-hate-my-life way. The world needs more women like you. I’m looking forward to reading more of your thoughts. I’m proud of the work I’ve put in as a heart mom. Guess who didn't get to nap and guess who is still snoring away, completely oblivious. We talked about it every time we went to nurse. And have developed a depression. Udderly exhausted. I would rather overreact to the possibility of PPD than underreact, you know? It’s to me they’ll run when they need that extra mom touch. Ghadeir. My sister does not understand because just like your friends she has no kids but she helps when she can but a lot of sacrifice comes with this and it is HARD you said it though im tired of being everybodys everything and days where I am over life like there has to be more to life than being a mother!!! It was SO BRAVE. Actually, I probably started hearing it way before then, but it’s likely that I didn’t pay much attention. My poor brain is fried and my body hurts. You see, as my kids are fighting and dropping the whole box of cereal on the floor, as I’m pulling my toddler away from the toilet before he drops his cup in to the bowl 2 seconds too late, as I reprimand my child for kicking his brother in the nose, as I put the kids to bed for the tenth time in one night, I realize, I am tired of being a mom! The answer is no, not because of 2 a.m. feedings any longer but because it is 2 a.m. and you can no longer be awakened by them because they have grown up and don’t rely on you any longer, the very thing that made you hate being a mom. I look back on those nursing and toddler years with affection and a bit of nostalgia. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. Because, to them, I am their everything. Worst. I'm so tired of being a mom. But we are only human. But I wanted to comment anyway, to say that I know things will get better, and I wanted to tell you a sort of funny story that my parents like to tell me. I think all the time how I don’t want my son anymore. I mean. 28.04.2019 Category: After childbirth (for mom) Author: Specialist. Couldn’t imagine life without them. I punish. It’s one of those things in life that can’t be explained. I'm just a mom. It is NONSTOP. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Then I feel horrible and guilty….I want her to self-wean when she’s ready but man, I don’t know…it’s hard, I’ve read so much stuff about all the benefits of extended breastfeeding and then I feel like an asshole, and I know that part of me will miss it when it’s gone, and I’ll probably feel like kicking myself for not ‘enjoying every minute’ or something. Of course I (and many others who I have talked with) get tired of being a mom and a wife. ( Log Out /  I’m tired of the endless, unrealistic expectations to clean the house, cook dinner, keep the kids calm. After all, we can’t look after our kids well unless we look after ourselves too. I’ve been there.. but there does come a time when you will sleep again. I certainly WON’T be having another child. I’m glad I’ve found you and I’ve just subscribed to your blog. I would strongly suggest seeking a bit of help on this because i now have a 4 month old and am undergoing similar sleep deprivation…but reading your story made me feel a bit uncomfortable. When I find the time. How much freedom should they have in middle school then high school? There you go with loosing your temper with your kids. Because of that, the moment I was out, they whisked me off to the Infant ICU. My husband had to go back home to start his job so I’m just fighting with him all the time because I’m not sleeping. They think I’m crazy and thank you for making me feel a little less crazy. I do need a night or day or time away to myself. I read all 36 end-of-the-year emails from the PTA. Struggling this week. He is an independent and loving 2 yr old. Being a stay-at-home mom doesn’t come with any of that. i liked your story, stereostarlight!! I needed this. Sometimes I wish I wasn’t alive. Seek help and get out in the fresh air. In all the months I’d spent preparing to have a kid, I’d never fully realized what it would be like to have a kid. But you can do that in a way that doesn’t negate yourself. Thank you. I'm tired of being a mom. Anyway, so glad to have found this blog. I'm Tired Of Being A Mom To My Mom - Janice has acted as the adult in her relationship with her parents. I wanted to enjoy life, graduate, get the dream job, maybe travel around the world and then get to know a nice guy, get married and have kids…in that order. tiny. Of course it is; and the older you get the more likely. Don’t judge other people’s journeys. Thank you again for sharing this. “Don’t push your brother”. But have you ever just felt so tired? I’m the oldest kid in my house. Sometimes I still miss my old life. I mean, only if you want to. But it was just me and me alone. What is ignoring that need going to teach your child? I can only get a shower in once a week. It never really stops. Posts tagged I’m tired of being a mom Say Good-Bye to Mother Fatigue. I did the whine it out. I found your blog from I Blame the Patriarchy (the post about daughters/sisters/wives), and I’ve landed on this post. The manager is so knowledgeable and helped so many parents. Why would I care about friends partying it up and having fun? (To the mom talking about having her “skin crawl”… time to wean!) I know this is an older post, but today I feel the exact same way, and it makes me feel awful about my parenting. Much, much less. Like I did something for ME that wasn’t the most selfish but indeed took a lot of self-convincing.. and it paid off. I have not had a day, let alone 15 minutes away from her to myself. I walked into the cluttered … My problem is that I feel lonelier being in a group of people who aren't like me than I do being alone. I’m sad that sometimes you feel that I’m mean. Create a free website or blog at WordPress.com. He is sick all the time, allergies and reflux. I had planned to self-wean, as you may know, but I found myself too touched out to enjoy our nursing relationship any longer and I didn’t want to remember it in an ugly way, because it was truly beautiful, even the hard bits. I just filed it under “obvious advice is obvious,” and thought nothing more of it. We have all been there. Sometimes I hate being a mom. I’m thankful that this is only a season and try to remember that and be present, but it’s not easy to do! I stay home. Change ), You are commenting using your Twitter account. I don’t know what I was thinking??!!! I am exhausted. I promise that reasonable limits will come soon! Thank you. Most of the time, I mom so hard, y’all. – Sylvia Plath, http://womensmentalhealth.org/posts/category/postpartum-psychiatric-disorders/. I limited a lot of his food. A lot. Wondering where your life has gone and that you have become a servant to this tiny human. No. Ah well here comes that 1 am mood dip just as i’m frantically trying to medicate myself to sleep. Don’t wait for him to sleep through the night. heres some reading material for you I had severe PPD after my first born, and I am still embarrassed to talk about it, even though I know I shouldn’t be, and in general, I am an honest, outspoken person. I was just remembering my life with my parents and I wish I could go back to live with them I tired of being a mom and broke … his doesn’t want to pay one red cent towards anything !! I'm at her beck and call. I was so overwhelmed w one kid, 2 kids was a breeze, & now #3 feels much like #1. It still makes us laugh. I’m so so tired dealing with all this. I have 2 boys, 1 who slept in his bed at 4 and cried every time he couldn’t sleep with me, I was pregnant. Many women, especially late in their pregnancy, are feeling huge and getting weary of the aches, pains and other symptoms associated with being pregnant. Well, it turned out to be me, and they swear, from age zero to two, the only time I wasn’t crying was when I was strapped into my car seat. I’m Tired of Being an Angry Mom. I wasn’t planning on becoming a mom at such a young age. I have much more than they do: a family. I need a VACATION !! I’m really working hard on being calmer and less easily irritated with my daughter (2). Nobody that knows me understands these feelings I have and I am constantly being told that I am wrong for feeling this way and that I “need help”. I’d love your thoughts. Glancing at your tags, I thought, “wow, she’s writing about the same things I am!” (although much more prolifically) I had to follow the parenting tag, and, viola’, here I am. Thankfully here are five steps you can take to regain some of your vibrant energy, and get that spring back in your step. A mom who feels like she is drowning in other people’s lives. I’m so tired of cleaning dirty diapers and wiping butts. It takes a lot of perseverance on your part to be able to have the strength to say “OK.. he is my first priority… but if that is true than where do I come in?” And you know what’s the worst? Get it here! I did about 6 1/2 yrs almost straight (I got 3 months off in between kids while pregnant thanks to a terrible stomach flu) My youngest made it to 3 1/2 before a well timed trip dried me up. ( Log Out /  I put my professional life on hold, in order to be a stay-at-home dad. I had the good fortune to make my main “hobby” my lifestyle and livelihood, so it was a huge part of my identity. My second is not even 2 and in his own bed and has been since 10 months. And this just hit home for me. This week we're listening to the Top Call of the Day episodes of All-Time!! Discussion in 'Baby Club' started by jaytee146, Jun 9, 2012. jaytee146 Blessed mommy to a beautiful girl and growing … You have no idea. Being a burnt-out mom is not only bad for you, but it's also bad for the people around you. ( Log Out /  Every time someone wants to hang out, I just cringe at the… They don’t care if I’m a little too tired or not smart enough. You wrote this post a long time ago and will probably never see my comment, but I must chime in with the others and say thank you. Your kids will wean, probably pretty naturally. You know what, quite often I’m really tired. It was too much work, too much booze, too much of everything. Breastfeeding is replaced with other more vague forms of care. I don’t mean so much in the sense that I chose to have a kid (although that is true), but more that I haven’t done any sleep-training, haven’t tried too hard to night-wean and, at 24 months old, still can’t really imagine being away from him overnight. Not being able to sleep when you are bone-fucking-tired and you know that your kid is going to wake up screaming soon and then you won’t get to sit down for the next five hours. I am so glad to see I’m not the only one. You either grab it when you can, or you go without. Hugs, kisses and I love you’s help too! And you’re right, I WOULDN’T want to be without myself. Definitely not planned. These cookies do not store any personal information. I take comfort in knowing this will eventually pass – you don’t see any 18yo still sleeping in their parents bed and waking to be nursed back to sleep! I’m sad that I worry about who you will become—I wonder if I’m doing a good enough job? Everyday I ask myself why?!?! And you know what sucks the most? Yes. My mom is trying to keep him away so I hardly see him, he misses a lot of his daughter developing/growing…. 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